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Inauguration Day for me meant going to work, just like any other day. But, I wanted it to be memorable for my girls.
I started out the day and briefly explained to the girls what was going to be happening during the day. Then I asked Miss Kim to make sure the girls watched the Inauguration live, but also recorded it so that I could discuss it with my girls tonight. When I was leaving for work, I told the girls that we would have a special inauguration dinner.
I am not a politically minded person, in any sense of the word. And frankly, neither is Scott. So, there hasn’t been much in the way of political conversation at our house. However, at work, it’s all I’ve been hearing about for the past several months. Some of my friends are very excited about President Obama, while others are less than thrilled with the direction the country went during the election. Me, I’m just grateful that we still live in a country where the vote matters. I don’t believe my little voice will be heard, but I’m glad there are those out there yelling loud enough to make a difference.
Although I am not politically driven, I do see the value in the historical aspects of today’s ceremony. President Obama is the 44th President. It was the first Presidential Inauguration that my daughters are alive for. He is the first African-American President- the first of any ethnicity other than Caucasian. His wife typically dresses from my favorite store but today she strayed from that and wore yellow. The age difference between President Obama and his Vice President is one of the largest spreads. President Obama only said “I” four times during his whole inauguration speech. Because, I do see the value, I wanted to do something to help the girls remember it.
I came home from work, wondering what on earth I was going to make for dinner that would be special. And don’t think the girls had forgotten my parting words. I was reminded quickly after getting home that I had promised them a “special” dinner.
So, I set to work and made blue chicken breasts, red (okay pink) mashed potatoes and served them on a white plate with a glass of milk. Not a great dinner, but one that they liked. They got a kick out of the blue meat and pointed out that the milk, plate and napkin all filled the white requirement.
After dinner, we played some games, then talked about why we have an inauguration ceremony and then watched the swearing in. Jade asked that we listen to Aretha Franklin sing again, because she “just loved her” and sang right along with her. I was glad to see Jade being excited that we have a new president.
When it was time for bed, we read a great book about Abe Lincoln. It is called “The Value of Respect” and is a book from my childhood. I found the whole series online and think it would be a fantastic addition to our children’s library. This book tells us how important it is to respect everyone- no matter their color, their level of wealth, or if they are nice to you. Respect has been an issue at our house the past few months. I’m not sure why, but it is. Jade said, while we were reading, that this story makes her want to be nicer to me. She cried in my arms after Abe Lincoln’s mom died. My tender little angel. At the end of the book, when Abe Lincoln is elected President, Jade got very excited because “today we got a new president”.
For now, they are both sleeping in their beds- but I’m sure I’ll have one if not both in my bed before morning. Can I use the story on respect as a reason to sleep in their own beds? Hmm, probably not. Plus, I do love having them “nuggled” into me some nights- JUST NOT EVERY NIGHT.
I am glad that we had the chance to participate in this historic day and hope the girls will remember this day every time a new president is sworn into office.
The week my brother’s family was in town, my mom kept all of the kids busy with lots of fun crafts. My favorite craft was homemade “Ugly Dolls“.
When we went to Disneyland one of the things we gave them on the drive was an Ugly Doll. Mom and I thought that they would be very fun to make on our own. I had thought about doing them as Christmas gifts, but time ran out. So, mom got all of the stuffing and felt to create them after the grand kids sleep over.
They started out by making patterns and then each cut out their own ugly dolls. Then they glued and decorated their dolls. Mom and I sewed them together and the kids stuffed them. One of the things that Jade did, that I think is absolutely sweet as could be, was put a heart on the inside of her doll.
Here are the girls with their adorable Ugly Dolls. Jade and Luke are both holding their younger sibling’s dolls. Ivy originally didn’t want to be part of the picture and Harrison was asleep.
Here they are… I bet you can guess which ones were bought and which ones were made. I have to say that they are all pretty darn fun. Below are Jade and Ivy’s dolls. Ivy’s is the pink one with the heart on the outside and Jade’s is the black one with the heart on the inside. This was a great activity and one that I think we should do again.
I hope to do a better job of balancing work and family. I hope to do more crafts and spend special mommy-daughter time with my girls more often. I hope to be a better wife/mom by doing more to meet Scott’s needs and the girls’ needs. I hope to live every opportunity to the fullest and not miss a chance to make a memory. I hope to spend more time building our family spiritually. Last year, I managed to document life with our family. I improved my attitude in areas that benefit me and my family. I let some of my responsibilities at work go to other people so that I could spend evenings with my family instead of my computer. I had a calling in church that I loved and looked forward to every month. Sadly, I was released on Sunday. I learned a great lesson of patience, tolerance and humilty while I nursed my foot for the last 5 1/2 months of the year. Thank you for joining me this past year. I look forward to sharing with you in this new year. What would you like to see more of in 2009? Less of? (MY FOOT?- I would like to see nothing of my foot in 2009). Scott and I formed a family. We were married on May 5th. We had a beautiful ceremony. The weather was absolutely perfect. There had been some strong rain storms (not snow- like this year) the week of our wedding. But that was perfect because it helped the flowers grow. Scott and I had decided that we didn’t want to do a really big wedding. So, we had no bridesmaids or groomsman- just adorable flower girls, and we kept the guest list small. We did have an open house a week later. It was beautiful that night too. We opted not to do a tux on Scott and I wore a very simple gown. Simple, but beautiful. It was a Nicole Miller and I still look at it and say, “wow, that was just such a pretty wedding dress.” (Shouldn’t we all feel that way about our dresses?) My mom did my flowers. I absolutely loved what she did. They were simple, elegant and perfect. Just what I always wanted. Actually, so was my cake. My 5th grade teacher did my cake. It was beautiful and tasted delicious. We froze the top layer and had intended on eating it on our anniversary- whatever the custom is. But, the freezer broke and the cake thawed. We didn’t dare eat it after that. My memories of the day were perfect. Not a thing went wrong. I was surrounded by people that love both of us and we formed a family that would be together forever. I am so grateful that Scott and I found each other. I’ll always remember the first time I saw him- with his great big smile. I am so fortunate to have Scott as my companion for time and all eternity. I can’t imagine spending it with anyone else. I guess that’s why we are encouraged to marry our best friend. This anniversary is a difficult one. Not because either of us forgot, or because we are so busy with other things that we just missed it. I had to travel for work. It is the Lenovo’s America’s Group Annual Kick Off. It is our biggest event of the year with Lenovo. Not one that I could miss. I would have loved to have Scott come with me, but it’s just not the type of event that has much down time. So he would have been out here and I would be tied up at the booth or in meetings the whole time. Boring for him. So, here we are, married for 7 years and not getting to spend it together. It’s actually not the first one that we haven’t spent together. I guess not being big on sentimentality comes in handy every once in a while. Either way, I’m very happy to be married to such a wonderful husband and father. I definitely miss him and wish I could be with him to celebrate this year. Maybe next year 🙂 |
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