Meet Amy

I have struggled with the answer when asked, "What do you do?" and it isn't work-related. Ultimately, we settled on that I find things and untangle things. But I also read (a lot), pretend to wake surf, and watch Hallmark films.

Amy's bookshelf: 2024

The Weekend Away
it was amazing
So so good! Orla and Kate are long-time best friends off on a girls' weekend away. Kate is a bit of a player who is trying to get back at her soon-to-be-ex, causing her to spend frivolously and do drugs and hook-ups. Orla is a new mom ex...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, five-stars, thriller, and thoughtful
Written Off
really liked it
tagged: 2024, cozy, easy, and four-stars
Maybe Next Time
really liked it
Parts were a screaming 5 and parts were like “what?” And just irritated me. It is a Groundhog Day premise about a family of four - the mom is caught up in her own life and missing all that is going on around her with her kids and then he...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, fiction, four-stars, and thoughtful

goodreads.com

Living Righteously in a Wicked World

Old Testament Lesson 8

“Living Righteously in a Wicked World”- February 28, 2010

 Genesic 1314 and 1819

INTRODUCTION:

Many years ago I received a blessing reminding me to live in the world but not of the world.

What does it mean to you to live in the world but not of the world?

My understanding of what that phrase means has always been the same.   To me, it has meant not getting caught up in the “worldy” items of the day.  Not being on a quest to always have the best of everything and the most of everything.  I equated being of the world as being materialistic and having the gathering of finery as a key goal.  Even with that very narrow definition, it is something that I struggle with.

Today, let’s discuss more in depth what it really means from a broader definition.

To begin the discussion, let’s take a look in Genesis chapter 13.

Abraham and Lot returned from Canaan after they had fled to escape the famine.  When they set up their homes, they did not live near one another.

Why do you think that is?

The correct reason that they didn’t live near each other is found in Genesis Chapter 13:5-6

SCRIPTURE #1 Genesis 13:5-6

5 And Lot also, which went with Abram, had flocks, and herds, and tents.

6 And the land was not able to bear them, that they might dwell together: for their substance was great, so that they could not dwell together.

There was not room to support two herds of cattle.

Were Abraham and Lot the men working the herds in the field?  No, they had herdsmen.

What happens if you put two groups of people with different bosses and tell them to serve their bosses at all costs- growing their investment? Or how do two 3 year olds act if you give them one toy to share and leave them alone to play together?

The herdsmen had conflict with one another.

Can you think of some everyday activities or situations that we or our kids may get in that are similar?

                Last piece of candy

                First to pick a toy

                One job- two strong candidates

Let’s take a look at how Abraham handled it.

SCRIPTURE #2- Genesis 13:8-9

8 And Abram said unto Lot, Let there be no strife, I pray thee, between me and thee, and between my herdmen and thy herdmen; for we be brethren.

9 Is not the whole land before thee? separate thyself, I pray thee, from me: if thou wilt take the left hand, then I will go to the right; or if thou depart to the right hand, then I will go to the left.

How can we learn from his example?

How does this story help us live “in the world- not of the world?”

When Lot moved to his new location, he built his home facing Sodom.  He started out first living near Sodom and eventually lived in Sodom.

How do we, at times, face Sodom?

What does Sodom symbolize to us today?

  • Unrighteousness
  • Sinfulness

 

In Mosiah we learn of the people at the time of King Benjamin and how they faced their tents.

SCRIPTURE #3- Mosiah 2:6

6 And they pitched their tents round about the temple, every man having his tent with the door thereof towards the temple, that thereby they might remain in their tents and hear the words which king Benjamin should speak unto them;

Why did they point their tents toward the temple?

How can we point our homes toward the temple instead of Sodom?

By facing the temple, how are we living in the world and not of the world?

As time continued, there were wars.   Nearing the end of one, Lot was taken captive.

SCRIPTURE #4- Genesis 14:14

14 And when Abram heard that his brother was taken captive, he armed his trained servants, born in his own house, three hundred and eighteen, and pursued them unto Dan.

What does Abraham’s behavior tell us about what kind of man he was?

Who did Abraham meet while rescuing Lot?

  • King of Sodom- The King of Evil
  • Melchizedek- The King of Salem-  The King of Righteousness

 

What exchanges took place between Abraham and these two kings?

  • To Melchizedek he paid tithing
  • King of Sodom wanted to give Abraham a gift

What was Abraham’s reasoning for not taking a gift from the King of Sodom?

SCRIPTURE #5- Genesis 14:23

23 That I will not take from a thread even to a shoelatchet, and that I will not take any thing that is thine, lest thou shouldest say, I have made Abram rich:

Again let’s take a look at ourselves-

What are some “threads” we could receive now?

  • Threads of Immortality
  • Threads of Dishonesty

 

If we accept these threads- how are we more “of the world”?

Why is it important to not let any unrighteous into our lives?

When have you had an opportunity to turn away from the offering of a thread?

Next we go into Genesis chapter 18.  In this chapter, we learn that Abraham is visited by three “holy men” who tell him that Sodom is going to be destroyed because of the wickedness of all in the city.

Abraham asked them how many righteous people would save the city.  He started with 50 people and continued down. 

What was the number that the Lord would save the whole city for?  10

Next, Lot is visited by 2 angels and they tell him to leave with his family and to not look back.

Why do you think he was told not to look back?

                Commitment to the Lord

 As we try to live in the world- what happens if we look back at the world of today?

                It shows a reluctance of giving up for we have been asked to do

 Lot’s wife wasn’t committed enough to doing as the Lord had said.  When she looked back she was turned to a pillar of salt.

 Why do you think that Lot was spared?

                He was spared because the Lord remembered Abraham’s righteousness and spared his family

 As we are living in the world, how can our righteousness help those we are close to?

 In conclusion, what are some things we have learned from today’s lesson that place us of the world rather than just in?

  • Greed
  • Abundance
  • Selfishness
  • Association with sinners
  • Tolerating inappropriate behavior
  • Stealing
  • Looking out for number one

 Elder M Russell Ballard said the following in the May Ensign (or conference report for April of 1989)…

 “In the Church, we often state the couplet, ‘Be in the world but not of the world.’ As we observe television shows that make profanity, violence, and infidelity commonplace and even glamorous, we often wish we could lock out the world in some way and isolate our families from it all. …  

“Perhaps we should state the couplet previously mentioned as two separate admonitions. First, ‘Be in the world.’ Be involved; be informed. Try to be understanding and tolerant and to appreciate diversity. Make meaningful contributions to society through service and involvement. Second, ‘Be not of the world.’ Do not follow wrong paths or bend to accommodate or accept what is not right. …  

“Members of the Church need to influence more than we are influenced. We should work to stem the tide of sin and evil instead of passively being swept along by it. We each need to help solve the problem rather than avoid or ignore it”

 Resources Used:

Beardall 2000

LDS Lesson Manual

Share

Valentine’s and the Super Bowl

Hey, who won the Super Bowl? Just kiddng- I know who won, but not because I paid any attention to it. I know because I would be really embarrassed if I didn’t.
During the Super Bowl, my mom put together craft time. We made Valentine cards and really cut little wood hearts. See…
… cute huh?
Share

Blissfully Domestic Latest Post


Check out my latest post on making scary things fun.
Posted by Picasa
Share

What a WONDERFUL decade this has been…

As I look back on the last decade I am extremely overwhelmed with gratitude for all that I have been blessed with. There have been very difficult times but also the happiest times of my entire life. As this new decade begins, I would like to recap some of the highs and lows of each year.

2000- The year started out with a huge and painful loss. My grandma proved to all of us that there was something to fear about Y2K. Grandma was NOT Y2K compatible. She died very early in the morning on the 2nd of January after she threw a blood clot from a broken leg. The doctors wouldn’t fix it the week before when they found it because it was considered “elective” surgery and they wouldn’t do elective surgeries for 2 weeks prior to Y2K- just in case.


The year started out on a difficult note, but the rest of the year was wonderful. I started work at Novell and I taught seminary at Alta High School. I was dating more than I ever have and then I met him, the “Hottie in the office” and was excited that he didn’t wear a wedding ring because he wasn’t married. The courtship began in September of 2000. We went duck hunting and I got my own waders. It was at that moment Scott knew he could marry me, but it took him a few months until he knew that he wanted to marry me.

2001- Scott Sanford proposed to me. Both versions of the story are worth sharing- but I’ll save those for another day. On May 5th, we were married at my Uncle’s cottage in Sundance. It was a perfect day.

That fall Scott started graduate school and I continued to work.

2002- Scott did an internship with Ford in Michigan and we found out that we were expecting Jade.

We were also sealed in the Salt Lake Temple for eternity.


2003- Jade joined our little family and I learned a whole new meaning for happiness.

That summer we moved our little family to Louisville, Kentucky where we bought our first house. We loved getting the yard put together and decorating the house to be our home.

2004- Scott and I enjoyed the rainy season in Jamaica for a getaway without Jade. We got to go to the Kentucky Derby and my cousins came out to experience it with us. It was the first rainy Derby in decades.


2005- Jade and I headed to Utah where I took a job with a software company, Scott took a promotion and moved to Michigan. It was extremely difficult being apart but we went back and forth as often as possible. The week before we moved, we found out that Ivy would be joining our family in January.

Scott and I got to go to a NASCAR race with Josh and Lisa. We also enjoyed the luxury suite at the horse races. Soon after that Josh and Lisa tied the knot. The next day I was put on bed rest for preterm labor.

Jade and I joined Scott in Michigan for the rest of the pregnancy and we love finding the fun in Dearborn.

2006- The year started out with Ivy joining our family in Dearborn, MI. Both sets of grandparents came out to help and play in the cold of Michigan while we explored Frankenmuth.

In the early summer, our family was reunited in Utah where we bought a lot and started to build our home. We lived in my grandparents’ condo for a season and were grateful that Scott got a job with another software company.

2007- We moved into our new home and spent the rest of the year getting the house and yard put together.

In April we took Jade and explored Germany and Austria in our new car. Ivy stayed with our nanny and missed us.

For work I traveled over 50,000 miles on Delta and 25,000 miles on United- I hope I never have to repeat that again.

2008- Scott and I got to go to Saint Lucia for my company’s president’s club. It was a wonderful vacation and the girls had a blast with my parents.

I broke my foot on my dad’s birthday and had surgery a month later.

We took the girls to Disneyland for their first time and they want to go back again and again.

For 2009 you can see the recap of the year, here.

Quite the decade- I LOVED 2000- 2009 and can’t wait to see what the next decade will bring my family.

Share

Happy New Year…


To wrap up this year, I would like to share with you some of the memories that stand out to me from 2009.
January- Ivy started dance and had so much fun that Jade decided she wanted to be in dance too.
February- Our family took a quick impromptu getaway to Midway.
March- Jade performed at a gymnastics meet at BYU and absolutely loved watching the BYU gymnasts.
April- This was an excellent month! Easter, a freakish spring snow storm, WICKED at Capitol Theater with our parents and another getaway this time to Bear Lake.
May- I finally got to wear a Prom dress to our ward prom and Jade graduated from kindergarten. Ivy and Jade had their dance recital and both fell in love with performing. We also got to watch Grandpa Great at the Golden Spike re-enactment.
June- We had a huge project where Scott put a rectangle trampoline in the ground. Jade and Ivy both learned how to ride their bikes- Ivy with training wheels and Jade without.
July- The girls experienced their first rodeo and it stormed the whole time. We took another getaway but this time to St George for a wonderful couple of days at the Sand Dunes.
August- Our life became a life of boaters. We spent weekends and nights out on the boat learning how to wake board. Jade also started First Grade and both girls made the performing companies at the VIBE dance studio.
September- More boating and a great Labor Day at the Thanksgiving Point Luau.
October- We saw several movies, rode the Haunted Train, and had a mouse problem- yuck!
November- We went to California and had a wonderful time playing with my brother’s family, spent a day at the Sand Dunes and went to the top of the world at Snowbird.
December- A very busy month filled with Jade winning the reflections contest, a polar bear swim, a Christmas program and dance demonstrations wrapped up with the girls seeing their first ballet.
What a full and wonderful year! Can’t wait to see what 2010 brings.
Happy New Year!
Share