Meet Amy

I have struggled with the answer when asked, "What do you do?" and it isn't work-related. Ultimately, we settled on that I find things and untangle things. But I also read (a lot), pretend to wake surf, and watch Hallmark films.

Amy's bookshelf: 2024

The Weekend Away
it was amazing
So so good! Orla and Kate are long-time best friends off on a girls' weekend away. Kate is a bit of a player who is trying to get back at her soon-to-be-ex, causing her to spend frivolously and do drugs and hook-ups. Orla is a new mom ex...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, five-stars, thriller, and thoughtful
Written Off
really liked it
tagged: 2024, cozy, easy, and four-stars
Maybe Next Time
really liked it
Parts were a screaming 5 and parts were like “what?” And just irritated me. It is a Groundhog Day premise about a family of four - the mom is caught up in her own life and missing all that is going on around her with her kids and then he...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, fiction, four-stars, and thoughtful

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When a dad doesn't get a son...

There are only 4 of us in our little family.  To me, 4 is a perfect number.  But we don’t have any sons.  I was afraid of getting a boy.  Silly huh?   I’ve never felt like I would be a good mom to a boy.  And I can’t explain why.

My husband very obviously would have loved a boy.  He would love a boy to throw a football with, go fishing with or go duck hunting with.  Instead he has a house full of pink, dance clothes, pony tail holders (which are somehow hidden in places throughout the house) and long hair.

When we were younger I wondered if we should try for one more and maybe get that little boy.  But after being on bed rest with Ivy from week 26 on and getting through her seizures and periodic fever syndrome, I didn’t have it in me.  The time came and went and we are happy with our family of four.

So when Scott encourages the girls to participate in activities that are traditionally “boy” activities, I embrace it.  In fact, I pray that the girls will have fun doing it.

The other day was one of those days.

Scott has great memories of going hunting with his dad and his grandpa.  He remembers sitting on the duck blind shooting at fence posts with his pellet gun.  Back then it was okay to sit in the bed of a truck while you rode out to the marshes, and he loves those memories.  (I grew up in a family that did not hunt at all – I always remember telling friends the story of the one time my dad went hunting.  He shot at a rabbit (I think) and it crushed my big 6 foot 6 inch professional football player of a dad to tears.  He never hunted again).

When Scott and I were dating, he took me duck hunting.  I loved being out in the marshes – it was so pretty and so peaceful.  So I decided it was pretty okay with me.  We bought me a pair of waders and I took hunter’s safety.  My waders got stolen and we never replaced them.  But he still goes.

Scott came home one day and said that we were heading to Cabela’s to look at pellet guns.  We did more than look.  We came home with one and spent our family night out in a field shooting at targets.

This Saturday Scott is taking Jade out to the bird refuge in her own little waders, her camera and her pellet gun to experience duck hunting first hand. They are going to go with a good friend of ours and his son.

I’ll be honest, I’m nervous about it.  But Scott is also the MOST conscientious person I know and he’s extremely protective of his little girls, so I’m sure she’s going to come home with a big smile and some great pictures.  (And hopefully no ducks).

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"I can go to the temple..."

Well, I recently received a new calling in our church.  I am not the first counselor in the Primary Presidency.  (The children’s organization of our church).

This is a calling that stresses me out more than most any other calling.  But, I know I was called to this position for a reason (even if I don’t know what it is).  Since I have always posted my lessons from either Sunday School or Primary, I’ve decided to continue by posting my Sharing Time lessons.

Each time I teach there will be two sections to the post- one for Junior Primary and one for Senior Primary.  The topic will always be the same, and they will be fairly similar but just geared more toward the different age groups.  The problem is that it will make the post very long, so I will use headers to distinguish the two.

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Junior Primary – I can go to the temple to receive ordinances for my ancestors when I am older

Show a picture of a Temple

What is this a picture of

Have any of you been to see a Temple

Why do we go to the Temple

What happens in the Temple?

 

I have always loved the song written by Janice Kapp Perry about the Temple.  It is called “I love to see the Temple

Sing the song “I love to see the Temple”

 

Now that we have sung the song, let’s talk a little bit more about what we do in the temple.  From the song we learned that we can  …  (Hang word strips on the board for each of these three things from the song)

LISTEN AND PRAY

COVENANT WITH HEAVENLY FATHER

SEALED TO OUR FAMILY

Last week we talked about the helping hands of the priesthood and the blessings that we can receive through the priesthood.  In the Temple we also receive priesthood blessings.   And these blessings are ones that are so very important.   These blessings are so important that they are called ordinances

Your baptism is a very important ordinance and each one of you can be baptized when you turn 8 because you are alive.  By being baptized you promise Heavenly Father that you we always do your best to be like Him and His Son, Jesus Christ

But did you know that not everyone will have the opportunity to be baptized?

That is one of the reasons that we have Temples today.  In the Temple, we can get baptized for our family members that died before they were able to get baptized

This week’s theme is “I can go to the temple to receive ordinances for my ancestors when I am older.

What is an ancestor?

Let’s have a quick scavenger hunt to find out a couple of things that we can do for our ancestors if they did not have the opportunity to get baptized while they were alive.

Have 3 clues that you will read from the podium.  At the hiding space have a folded up word strip that a child can bring to you and read from the podium.  Also have a picture of each item, if you can.

 

Clue #1 – You can see through me from the inside looking out or the outside looking in.  (Window) – BAPTISM – Have a picture of a Temple baptismal font.

Baptism – This is the first of the ordinances that need to happen for your ancestors.  When you get a little bit older you will be able to go to the temple and do baptisms for wonderful people that have already died.  Just like when you will get baptized for your self, you will wear white and a priesthood holder will offer the baptismal prayer and you will go all the way under water.  ALL of it will be just like when you get baptized.

Clue #2 – I make beautiful music when someone tickles me and loud noise when someone bangs on me.  (Piano) – ENDOWMENT – Have a picture of an endowment room.

Endowment –  An endowment is when we make even more promises to our Heavenly Father than we do when we get baptized.  It is a very important promise and our ancestors need to have the opportunity to make the same promise.   So when your mom and dad go to the Temple, they are probably helping one of your ancestors or someone else’s ancestor make the same promises they did when they went through the Temple the first time.

Clue #3 – You can write on me or you can hang things from me, but I don’t like to be scratched.  (Whiteboard or Chalkboard) – SEALING – Have a picture of a sealing room.

Sealing – In the temple you can be sealed to your family forever and ever.  But if you did get to do it when you were alive, someone else can do it for you.  My husband’s grandparents were married outside of the Temple.  After they died, we got to be sealed for them.  That way they can be together with their famiies forever and ever!

I know that the Temple is a sacred place.  It is a place where we can feel Heavenly Father’s love.  It is also the only place where we can help our family members that have died be with Heavenly Father and their families forever.

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Senior Primary – I can go to the temple to receive ordinances for my ancestors when I am older

President George Q Cannon once said, “Every foundation stone that is laid for a Temple, and every Temple completed… lessens the power of Satan on the earth, and increases the power of God and Godliness.”

What does that mean?

There are currently 139 Operating (2 Under Renovation), 13 Under Construction, 16 Announced

Since you were born there have been 3 Temples dedicated in Utah (Brigham City, Oquirrh Mountain and Draper) and there are 2 more that have been announced – (Provo City Center and Payson).

Raise your hand if you have seen a temple this week.

It is amazing, living in Utah, that you cannot travel very far without seeing a Temple.

Raise your hand if you have ever been inside of a temple.

When you were inside the temple, how did you feel?  What was your favorite part of them temple?

Why are Temples so important?

In the temple there are sacred ordinances.  (Sacred rites and ceremonies. Ordinances consist of acts that have spiritual meanings. Ordinances can also mean God’s laws and statutes).

Each of you will likely have the opportunity to go through the temple for yourself.  You will each be able to make sacred promises with your Heavenly Father.  But there are many people who haven’t had that chance or won’t have that chance.  And some of them are your ancestors.

What is an ancestor?

It is your responsibility to help make sure not one of your ancestors misses out on the opportunity to make those covenants.

Do you know how you can help them?

 

Let’s have a quick scavenger hunt to talk about some of the ordinances that take place in the Temple.   Each one of the ordinances you can  one day do for your ancestors.   We may also find out some other things that you can do for yourself in the Temple.

Have 5 clues that you will read from the podium.  At the hiding space have a folded up word strip that a child can bring to you and read from the podium.  Also have a picture of each item, if you can.

Clue #1 – I can brighten the room quickly or I can make it very dark.  (Light switch) – LISTEN AND PRAY – Have a picture of a Celestial Ro

Listen and Pray – The Temple is a very peaceful place.  A place where you can go and have quiet prayer.  It is a place where you can listen without the interruptions of TV, music, noises or much of anything.  The Temple is the best place to go when you need the kind of help that you can only get through asking your Heavenly Father.

Clue #2 – You can see through me from the inside looking out or the outside looking in.  (Window) – BAPTISM – Have a picture of a Temple baptismal font.

Baptism – This is the first of the ordinances that need to happen for your ancestors.  When you get a little bit older you will be able to go to the temple and do baptisms for wonderful people that have already died.  Just like when you will get baptized for your self, you will wear white and a priesthood holder will offer the baptismal prayer and you will go all the way under water.  ALL of it will be just like when you get baptized.

Clue #3 – I make beautiful music when someone tickles me and loud noise when someone bangs on me.  (Piano) – ENDOWMENT – Have a picture of an endowment room.

Endowment –  An endowment is when we make even more promises to our Heavenly Father than we do when we get baptized.  It is a very important promise and our ancestors need to have the opportunity to make the same promise.   So when your mom and dad go to the Temple, they are probably helping one of your ancestors or someone else’s ancestor make the same promises they did when they went through the Temple the first time.

Clue #4 – You can write on me or you can hang things from me, but I don’t like to be scratched.  (Whiteboard or Chalkboard) – SEALING – Have a picture of a sealing room.

Sealing – In the temple you can be sealed to your family forever and ever.  But if you did get to do it when you were alive, someone else can do it for you.  My husband’s grandparents were married outside of the Temple.  After they died, we got to be sealed for them.  That way they can be together with their families forever and ever!

Clue #5 – When I am working I will make your voice sound louder than it is.  When I’m not workin you have to speak a little louder.  (Podium) – A PLACE TO LEARN ABOUT HEAVENLY FATHER AND JESUS CHRIST – Have a picture of Jesus Christ.

When you get older and can go to the temple, you will have an opportunity to learn more about your Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ than you have ever learned.  Each time you go the lesson will be repeated and you will be surprised at how often you learn something new.  President David O McKay (a prophet) once said that every single time he went to the temple he learned something new.

Have everyone stand up and repeat after me, I can go to the temple to receive ordinances for my ancestors when I am older.

Have them sit down and close with testimony.

I know that the temple is the house of God and there I will be able to help my ancestors return to their Heavenly Father and be with their family for all eternity.  I love to see the Temple.  It is the most peaceful place on earth and I love getting to go there and feeling close to my Heavenly Father.   I know that  when I go to the Temple, I am helping someone that can’t help themselves.

 

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I got to have lunch with two artists

The other day I was invited to attend a lunch with Liz Lemon Swindle (and not the Liz Lemon from 30 Rock as my brother and Scott joked) and Robert Boyd.  When the invitation came, I was so excited.  I met Liz years ago at a gallery party that my uncle was part of.   So I adjusted my schedule to make sure I could go.  My dad took care of getting the girls to their rehearsal and took a long lunch.

Liz shared with us an amazing goal that she has to have a picture of Christ hanging in every home.  Not just every home in Utah nor the US but in every home in the world.  It is very important to her that people don’t have to pay for the picture of Christ.  She doesn’t want it to be a marketing move so the pictures don’t even have her signature on them.  Did you know that you can get one for yourself?  Check out Pictures of Christ. There are many Christian bookstores that carry the free picture or Liz’s son can send one to you.

We also got to visit with Robert Boyd – a prominent LDS photographer.  (I’ve known his wife since high school and it was very fun to get to spend time with her).  He used to be a wedding photographer and got tired of doing it.  But he has a very special gift of capturing images of the temple that hang in many LDS homes.  He too has a goal.  And that goal is to have a picture of a temple hanging in every LDS home.

While we had lunch with Liz and Robert, we got to hear all about many great opportunities for contests and give aways that they will be doing over the next couple of months leading up to Christmas.  Right now there is a contest going on that I know you really need to enter.

Here are the prizes to the contest and then I’ll help you know how you can enter.  

And now go to “A Mother and her lots of things” to learn more of this contest and to enter…

A couple of other links to visit…  Liz Lemon Swindle’s blog and her son’s blog.

If you are a Christian, do you already have a picture of Christ hanging in your home?  

If you are LDS, do you have a picture of a temple?  (Years ago our congregation did an activity where we framed photographs of one of the local temples).

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Getting through the milestones

Anyone who has lost a someone close to them knows that each of the milestones presents more tears but also an opportunity to think of and talk more about your lost loved one.

Last week was just one of those days.  Almost 4 months ago my sister-in-law lost her 2 year battle with cancer.  Since she passed away we have had the 4th of July, my brother and sister-in-law’s wedding anniversary, my niece’s and a nephew’s birthday (a first without their mom) and last week was her birthday.

Two days before her birthday, when my girls realized Anne’s birthday was coming up, they requested that we let off balloons for her birthday.

I was concerned with how we could make it special.  (Anne’s birthday was on Tuesday which is a day that both girls have dance).  So I left work a little early and picked up the balloons on the way to pick them up from school.  Then I put together little strips of paper for the girls (and me) to write notes on.  I had it all laid out  ready for them to do as soon as we got home.

Let me just say it is a fine balance between rushing to get two girls out of the house for dance while trying to do something thoughtful and special.  But, they were motivated to do the balloons.  So both girls hurried and got ready for dance and wrote their notes to Aunt Anne.

The three of us went out to the backyard and sent hugs and kisses heaven ward by way of balloons.

I cried.  They smiled and shared the things they love and miss about her.

And we made it through one more milestone.

And with that milestone my thoughts and prayers continue to go out on behave of my brother and the kids.  I am so amazed and encouraged by the way they are getting along.  And as Tom closes each PTCH video or blog post, “Life Goes On”.  And so it does.

 

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Full Frame Cameras - What's the big deal?

For those of you who follow me on Instagram or Facebook, you have no doubt seen the pictures that announce my absolute excitement over my new camera.  Yes, I am the proud owner of the brand new Nikon D600.  And so far I love it!  (Granted, I’ve only had it for a day (and most of that day I’ve had a killer migraine) but I’m liking what I’m seeing).

People have asked me why I wanted a new camera.  Didn’t I have a good enough camera with the Nikon D300s?  Sure, I love my D300s.  But it is a DX or crop sensor and the D600 is a full frame or FX camera.  (Oh and there are many other upgrades that are mostly due to the fact that it is a newer model).

So why would I want a full frame sensor?  Aren’t there benefits to a crop sensor?

Well, let me tell you about the differences between the two…

A crop sensor does not show you the world as it is.  Many of us grew up in the day and age of film cameras and likely had a 35 mm point and shoot or a 35 mm SLR.  That is how we are used to seeing the world.  When you look through a DSLR with a crop sensor you are seeing the world by 1.5 times what you expect.  That means if you have the “nifty 50” (which I HIGHLY recommend) you are really  seeing your subject as if looking through a 75 mm lens.  (Which in some cases is fantastic.  For example, when I’m taking wake boarding pictures I am usually zoomed out to 200mm (per the lens) but I’m actually zoomed to 300mm.  That makes it much easier to capture those funny facial expressions).  But with the smaller size comes lesser quality of your image.  A crop sensor will have more noise (especially at higher ISOs) and will not be quite as crisp.

Besides zooming in the world 1.5 times, the crop sensor is significantly cheaper to manufacture and is therefore the only sensor used for entry-level DSLRs.  It is also much lighter and smaller than a full frame sensor.  Which makes a crop sensor ideal for young learners.  (No, my D300s will not be going to my children but my D80 will).  With a crop sensor you will get less vignetting because you are capturing less of the available image.  Oh, you may still get some vignetting with your DX, especially if you are using a longer hood and shooting very wide.

Now a full frame sensor shows you the world as you are used to seeing it through your old 35 mm camera.  Your zooms are true to their description – a 50 mm is a 50 mm and a 200 mm is a 200 mm.  That means when I’m shooting dance pictures I can sit on the front row and use my 70-200 2.8 and zoom it all the way in without cutting off feet.  I love that idea.

The full frame sensor gives a photographer a higher quality image.  Which means you will mostly find professional photographers or serious hobbyist are the ones using the larger, heavier and more expensive full frame cameras.  The sensor is larger and allows for more pixels (or picture elements) which results in a crisper photo with less noise.  For photographers that want to sell their images and/or blow them up poster size or greater, that crispness makes a huge difference.  (Keep in mind, if you don’t have great lenses you will still lack the crispness whether you are shooting crop or full).

Above is the same picture taken with the D300s and a 50 mm 1.8 lens and the D600 with the same 50mm 1.8 lens from the same distance.

You will notice that the D300s shows a lot less of the picture even though I was positioned in the very same spot.

So let’s identify some of the perks of each…

Full Frame or FX:

  1. You can stand closer to your subject and capture more in the frame (a benefit when taking pictures of babies for sure!)
  2. Your images will be crisper
  3. The lenses you’ve invested in are the focal length they say they are
  4. There are more pixels which provides less noise as well as larger images to enlarge

Crop Sensor or DX:

  1. You don’t have to be as close to your subject to focus on it (a benefit when taking pictures of bees!)
  2. There is minimal vignetting due to the cropped edges
  3. The camera is cheaper and lighter than a full frame
  4. You gain 1.5 times your zoom length

Both Nikon and Canon just came out with their new “affordable” full frame cameras.  The Nikon D600 and the Canon 6D.  They are slightly more expensive than their entry-level “Professional” crop sensor cameras but have some great improvements.

Part B of this series will include more comparison photos between the D300s and the D600 and I’ll gush about why I decided to go with the camera I did.  Believe me, it has been a long process and included my near conversion to Canon.

**** What other questions about photography would you like me to answer?  (I’ll answer them in a very non-technical way).

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